Thursday, July 22, 2010

Hi I have pretty bad back acne, and a little bit on my chest. Will this turn of women?

Hi, I'm 25. For most of my life I have fought a bitter war with acne. I have beaten it from my face, but it still lingers on my back (badly) and on my chest (lightly). It has always been a sore spot for me, and has ripped up my self-esteem. I have let several really good women slip through my fingers, all on account of this ';things'; evil influence over me. So I would really like to know if acne problems like this are a big thing for girls.Hi I have pretty bad back acne, and a little bit on my chest. Will this turn of women?
my son has been using pine tar soap for a lil over a month now. it has really helped clear it up. he had it really bad. huge sores on his face, back and some on his arms and chest. you can get it thru your pharmacy. it costs about $4 a bar and a bar can last 3-4 wks.Hi I have pretty bad back acne, and a little bit on my chest. Will this turn of women?
It wouldn't bother me. I would be more concerned with how a guy treated me. BTW, have you tried using hydrogen peroxide? My niece used everything from prescription meds to Proactiv and only had real success when she started using hydrogen peroxide. She dabs it on every night with a cotton ball. I know your back might be hard to get so maybe you could soak in a tub with a some hydrogen peroxide added to the water every couple of days. Just a thought ...





Oh, one more thing. Try Airborne. You can buy it at any drugstore. I used to get cystic acne really bad on my chin where it hurt and took months to go away. The only thing that helped was antibiotics, but I didn't want to take them for the rest of my life. About two years ago, I took some Airborne for a cold I had at the same time I felt another cystic acne eruption brewing. The next morning, the acne spot was completely gone and it never came back! Since then, I have used Airborne every time I feel one coming on and I have never had another outbreak in two years. The stuff is cheap enough (about $5) and definitely worth a try!
it really depends on how badly you have it. If it is severe, then it is a bit of an issue and a turn off. I dated this guy once for a year with backne... i just didnt pay attention. if you have a nice face and body then i am sure it is fine
If you really believed she was a good woman, you would not of let the acne over come you. How about those with moles in strategically marked places on their body? How about those who have one arm? How about those who are blind? They find love because the perfect partner for them sees beyond that. The perfect partner sees deeper. Your negative self esteem and not accepting you for yourself is just a mask. Your using the acne as an excuse. To be quite honest, I am married. When my hubby gets a black head on his back, I pick at it. He could care less. As long as I don't dig and hurt him. Do I care? Nope. Its part of him. I love him beyond the flaws he may think he has. I see him flawless. His personality and the way he respects and cherishes me. He could grow a second nose at this point and I wouldn't think twice. I would just go through it with him. We are going on almost 12 years together and 3 being married. Please, I beg, start being yourself around especially those who you think are good enough to be keepers. Accept them for their flaws to. Everyone in this world has a flaw internal and external.
Honestly, it is a turn off, but frankly I've looked past it before for guys.





The important thing is how you feel about yourself so I suggest trying to get it under control, see a doc, and as your self-esteem rises so will your ability to charm the ladies. ;)
depends weather the girl cares or not. i had sever acne on my face, chest, and back and it completly ruined my summer and my self confidence was at 0 now my acne is pretty much gone and ive never felt so good about my self b/c of accutane. talk to you dermitologist see if he will perscibe you anything that will help it go away
The right woman will love you for who you are and not some physical thing. It would not turn me off but I am already married.


Maybe you could try not to let women see your back if it bothers you.


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i mean no one likes acne..but i mean pfft most people get it and dont feel embarrassed by it..if a girl wont talk to you because you have pimples on your back..then they arent worth talking to.
My son had this problem for years. I felt so sorry for him because they actually hurt. We tried everything. Then when he turned around 21 most of it cleared up. His back is scarred though. I will tell you this, he has no trouble getting women. I sometimes wished he did. lol
It shouldn't matter whether she cares about your acne. If she is going to be disgusted by something as stupid as acne (a natural process, I might say), then she isn't worth you time. Get someone who'll like you for you.
If it bothers her she 's not worth it. Don't worry about it, your body is in no way a reflection of your character. The more you feel self-conscious about it, the more you make it a problem. You are fine just the way you are!
Guys seem to not know this, but yes you can use those same products that are marketed to women--try Neutrogena body wash in the shower, and Clearasil and also Avon acne scrubs are great, all do NOT have a ';feminine'; smell to them and are wonderful for both men and women.
Go to a dermatologist. I know some who have gone and really have gotten cleared up. Sometimes you need something other than over the counter medicine. Check it out and then check out any chic you want with confidence.
yes, hopefully you see a dermatologist? i read that betadine iodine scrub is esp. good for the back, get it at any drugstore.
hey .. i have this problem also .. i've been to a dermatologist and the stuff they gave me didn't work .. i'm searching for new products .. im in high school and this lowered my self esteem also .. i play basketball and like the acne is on my back and shoulders .. and i don't wear short sleeve shirts unless it covers my shoulders ..
It may tun off women. Justremember this, hen ou get sweaty oroily take a clean paper towel, drench it in cold water and cleanse your face, then take a dry one and dry. Try after that not to ever touch the infected area, it makes it worse. And some people think the harder and more they wash their face, the faster and better thier results are going to be. Not true, over washing your face or washing for a long period of time can worsen the problem up to two times. I hope this helps. Whatever you do be happy and confient. The real thin that attracts women is to see a good happy confident person!

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